Just because you can’t do something, it doesn’t mean you can’t do anything. You will receive from the world lots and lots of criticism.
Being scared doesn’t mean you are weak, being scared doesn’t make you a bad person….. In fact being scared proves that you are alive, that you are moving, that you are learning, that you are becoming a better person than you were yesterday.
HOW DO YOU IMPROVE YOURSELF??
- BUILD UP YOUR MENTALITY RACK: At least every month you have to finish about just one book. There’s a quote I once read somewhere that says; Try to learn something about everything and everything about something. This in general is telling you to learn everything about everything. Knowledge is power, knowledge puts you ahead. Let me give an instance:
In a class for example there is a smart and intelligent kid that answers all the questions in Chemistry, Physics, Math, English etc , and on the other hand there is another kid that doesn’t answer at all, he’s not bright academically, he does poorly in his test – One day the Intelligent kid is on the road to the airport with his mom to pick up a family member that is coming to visit them when suddenly they have a flat tyre, in this situation there was nobody around that could help them at that moment so the intelligent kid mom told him to change their tyre and his response was I can’t , his mom askes why? And he says I don’t know how to. After standing there for some while his other class mate the one considered “to be dul” passes by when he discovered his well known by teachers’ intelligent class mate being stranded with his mom in the middle of the road, he comes down asked what was wrong, when he is told their predicament he offered to help and he finally changes the tyre for them.
Now, though the smart one was the mighty one in the classroom of school, outside the classroom that day he discovered he was not too smart. Everybody has something to offer if they are given the opportunity to, because the dull boy couldn’t answer few questions in the classroom doesn’t mean he is dull. Whatever it is that you know try to know everything about it… study, grind on that thing, search every nuke and cranny to discover every secret of that thing.
- DON’T QUIT AT YOUR FIRST FAILURE: Nobody really does anything new for the first time without practising and is expected to come out flying. The fact you didn’t get your way the first time you did something doesn’t mean you cannot be good at that thing, because you got a public disgrace the first time you did something new doesn’t mean you have to go home and lock yourself away in your closet NO!.. it’s a sign that screams KEEP MOVING YOU ARE GETTING SOMEWHERE; in everything there are two things that are always by it side – failure and success – now it depends on which one you choose to pick or which one you try to get. But the fact that you failed at your first attempt doesn’t mean you are a told looser. Get up, dust yourself and get back in front of the line. Never give up regardless of how challenging the road may be.
- CHANGE YOU THINKING FACULTY: What you think is what you become, what you mind conceive is what you get as result. Change the way you think. Think I will succeed not I am scared of failing. If you are doing anything for anybody then you have not started living yet. When you are set for an exam don’t say “what if I fail” say “when I succeed I will…” Don’t limit yourself with your mind with low self-esteemed thoughts. Remember, your mind is limitless, it never stops growing… so don’t try to stuck yourself in one dogma; explore, discover, learn. Don’t say oh! God! I don’t think I’m gonna make it, instead say God! I’m gonna make it. Whatever it is you say, think and believe consistently there is a 95% chance of you getting it
So, try improving yourself not decreasing and destroying yourself