7 Tip to Find Yourself When You’re Feeling Lost.

I didn’t write this inspiration message myself, I saw it and it inspired me and I decided to share it with you. I hope it inspires you too.

7 Tips to Find Yourself When You’re Feeling Lost
Whether you’ve lost yourself in your job, relationship, your role as a parent or simply feel lost in life in general, you are not alone. It doesn’t mean your life is doomed and that you will never find yourself again. It simply means you are going through an incubation period and transformation. The key is not to get stuck in your current lost state and to tap into your creative power to create a life you love.

Here are seven tips that will help you out of this lost state and remind you of the power you have to create a life you love.

1. Remember what you love to do and go do it! Do you remember the last time you had fun in your life? Do you remember when things felt easy and in the flow? It was likely because you were fully engrossed in the fun of the moment. As we grow up, we lose sight of how amazing life can be because we feel burdened by the responsibilities and mundane parts of life. It’s time to reconnect with what you love and to take action on it. No more excuses about not having the time, money, resources, babysitter etc. Make a commitment to do what you love and watch your life change before your very eyes.

2. Go on an adventure. Whether it’s a day trip, a solitary retreat, or a week-long drive along the coast, go out and explore the world. This will not only allow you to tap into the flow, but it will also give you the time and focus to really reconnect with yourself again. You’ll be away from the noise of your regular life and will be able to see and experience the world with fresh eyes. I promise, when you come back you will have far more clarity about where you are going than you had when you started.

3. Reconnect with your dreams and dream BIG. What kinds of dreams did you have for your life before you lost yourself in the busy-ness of life? What have you since deemed impossible or improbable because of where you are today? Grab a journal and reconnect with the dreams you once had and better yet, come up with some new dreams. In a perfect world, what would you love to be, have, or do? What is your soul aching for? Once you reconnect with your dreams, you’ll have the desire and inspiration to begin to take action and suddenly you will have found yourself again.

4. Expand your comfort zone regularly. It’s time to get uncomfortable by trying new things and meeting new people. Growth doesn’t happen by staying in your bubble of comfort where everything is familiar. Challenge yourself to do something that is slightly terrifying, yet invigorating. That is what I like to call the zone. It’s the space where you are stretching yourself just enough to continue to grow and evolve. What’s the first thing that came to mind for you? Go do that!

5. Get quiet and listen. Everyday there are signs, messages, and guideposts that will inspire you to act, but you only notice them if you are open. With all the mind chatter and busy-ness we have these days it can be difficult to recognize the signs that are all around, so it’s important to get quiet and listen. Pay attention to the signs on the road, songs on the radio, and the people you meet in the street. There are messengers all around with Divine guidance to help you move forward on your path. Your key to finding yourself may very well be on a billboard or come to you as a thought in the shower. Listen up, pay attention, and then follow through on your inspired action.

6. Remember you have the power to be, have, and do anything you desire. Sometimes the feeling of being lost is all-consuming and you forget that you get to choose what you think and how you feel. You are given a great amount of power to create the life you desire and get the answers you are looking for. Whether you use affirmations, mantras, meditation, yoga, journaling or something else, it’s important to focus on the beauty and joy around you. When you do that, the Universe sends you more of the same, including the answers you are seeking.

7. Ask for help. There are so many people in the world whose purpose it is to help people like you. Reach out and ask for help. You don’t have to figure this out all on your own and sometimes simply having a chat with someone can provide the insight you need to move forward with ease. Whether it’s a life coach, mentor, friend, counselor, or the Divine, ask for help and be open to the guidance and tools that come your way.


The Storm (Don’t Let Life Knock You Down)


Sometimes we live like God hates us and life has forgotten us, it happens, thats just the storm trying to get up to give up in life, it rains so heavy on us and tries to beat us mercilessly. But what you do as a person during this kind of time really defines you, it tells if you’re a kind of person willing to put up with the rain and go far or you’re to scared to get struck by lightning.
Individually we all have issues we are scared of facing, we just wished sometimes they would just disappear, God knows sometimes I feel like other people’s lives are way better than mine, that they have no issues and they’re perfects, their grades are up, the aren’t sluggish and disappointing, they don’t need to take risk cause everything is working out for them and I think, Why do I have to be the one to suffer, look at everybody out there, they’re progressing, they have no issues, they have no challenges but I’m damn wrong, because you see someone living lavishly, being so flamboyant doesn’t mean that person secretly doesn’t have issues going on in their life, doesn’t mean they’re perfect. Life storms play tricks on you and if you aren’t careful enough, you’re going to end up living a photocopy of some else’s life you think is perfect but ABSOLUTELY is not.
I can’t really tell you what your future is going to be like if you put up with the storm in your life right now, but I can tell you this, if you put up with that issues right now in your life, your life is going be worth it more than what it is now, you’re going to have and I have been there before’ story to tell people in the future and there’s no greater joy than sharing a story of testimony and triumph to people than that, you become an icon of hope.
Life isn’t going to go easy on you again you should know that! You’ve grown up, you ain’t going to be running for protection under mom and dad arms anymore, You’re now at a stage you should be able to take on responsibility in your life… Nobody’s going to get in your storm for you, everybody is alright been hit hard or current is being hit hard. Get your grip in life, put yourself together and go and find out what wonderful purpose God has put in your life.
Life isn’t and will never be a merry-go-round…. Everyday we are alive we are in a fight, fight for a secured future and the moment we decide to give up and give in to life terms and conditions we lose.


Felt used or useless sometimes… scared you’ve disappointed everybody… Hey!! Listen. Nobody really cares how you feel, only you do – It’s life, people are bound to hurt you, to make you feel like giving up sometimes… make you feel like what you do don’t matter, like it doesn’t count; But it does. Listen to me right now; You count in this world OK, you really do, You, might not be that kind of child your parents expected you to turn out to be No! but you definitely turned out to the kind of person God expected you to be…. Even if you don’t seem so now, don’t give up, building a masterpiece takes time. Jesus didn’t die on the cross immediately he was born nahhhh…. He grew, He worked, He took time. It doesn’t really matter how bias a situation may be for you right now, just know this DON’T YOU EVER GIVE UP ON BUILDING YOURSELF!! Don’t tie your value to a person or situation they would disappoint you. Nobody is perfect except God. No relationship is perfect except the one you have with God, why? because no matter what we do to Him he will always forgives us as long as we are willing to turn back to him.

You are a teenager, you have purpose, you’ve been given a reason for existing, don’t waste your life on shallow things, things that are volatile, things that won’t count in the next 5 years, 2 years or perhaps the next 30 minutes. Push for what is right, do what is right not just what feels right …… Please I beg you and I beg you again DON’T PURSUE AFTER PEOPLE, PURSUE DESTINY, PEOPLE WILL DEFINITELY FOLLOW BETTER PEOPLE EVEN. Yes, I know you’ve made grievous mistakes in the past but forgive yourself or else you would never be able to move forward in this life you’ve been given to live. If you tie your happiness to a particular person, I promise you that happiness won’t last and at the end you will end up sad and disappointed.

 Don’t let a person define you, don’t let something anything, money whatsoever define your worth, because, you are worth so much more than you can begin to comprehend. Next time you are ever asked what’s your value what’s your worth… tell them to get you the blood of Jesus Christ cause that’s your worth, He paid that you will fulfill destiny and nothing on earth, under the sun, no matter how hard the thing tries except you.

Here’s the main line: you have a purpose. Live it right.


It’s easy to get negative… Negativity is one of the easiest threats to posses, it’s always there, it tries to make us scared… Telling us that we can’t make it. We can’t be better than we are currently… It makes us scared… It tells us we won’t amount to anything, we should just give up.
Negative if you don’t know is a dream killer, it’s always there, you can’t push it away but you can ignore it. You can live life like it’s not there.
Everything in life has two sides, the negative side and the positive side, but today, this day, most people let the negativity over power the positivity, they give so much power to the negative side, they let it rule them. They just believe that negativity always should dominate, WHY?!… Cause they are scared to believe, to hope, to dream, to keep pushing… They just want to let that negative belief over power the positive so that when they are asked along the way what happened…. They would simply say something bad happened.

SCREW THAT!!!!…. you’re giving yourself excuses so that you will pity your failures, errors and mistake. Don’t ever let negative posses and rule your life…. You’ll end up living your last moments on this earth in regret

What are you going to do about yourself now, today? Would you move, change or would you want to keep seeing the negativity in everything and continue your miserable self pity??

But ShUt Up…. You’ll make it because the fire in you is great than the storm outside you.. Don’t live on other peoples dream for you life


The human race …… Why is it called the human race?……. Why are we called a race?? Is that a scientific name or is that what we are actually doing in life here on earth?

Right from birth every human being has be on the run, every human has been running, running towards something or from something ( but its better you run towards something, it qualifies the fact that you have a purpose). And in this race if you dare slack back, if you are drooping or become floppy you are going to loose before you even get to the middle of the track.

Alright, Let me give an instance……. When you were about to be formed in your mother’s womb…. When there was an intercourse from both your parents in any way, married or unmarried…. The moment your dad released the spermatozoa, I bet you were running towards the ovary ( even if you weren’t a full life form yet) … towards your moms egg to fertilize it… cause for every sperm released millions of life forces are on the run, they are on the run towards one goal to fertilize the egg….and the moment one reaches or any number resulting to multiply children at once, the rest loose, the rest dies off, that’s life for you… Most people forget that they have been running from the time they were about to be born… when they come into this world and see life when the see challenges and the find difficult situations they do what QUIT…. They get tired, they lose hope, the lose bearing, meaning, essence, focus, vision, THEY GIVE UP.

When running don’t you ever stop, I repeat don’t you ever stop or else you wouldn’t make it to the finish line before the time is up!!… Everybody is racing , everyone wants that position you have now, and if you dare stop, slack or get lazy, somebody somewhere would catch up with you and collect it from you.

Are you a dead body? then why aren’t you running, why did you choose to give up and start self-pitying yourself hoping the world would look at your face and see how wounded you are and give you back the space you just lost when you ought to change your shoes and keep on running The only body that can’t race, that can’t run is the dead body and I believe you reading this means not dead.,. I once read a quote that said: if the race gets harder change your shoe. That’s it – don’t ever stop running EVER!! Keep on running, and run alone you’ll cover more grounds… don’t talk while running ( keeping unnecessary friends),….you can never find Olympic racers talking to themselves on the track while running… NO!! Everybody is focused, Every one of them wants to get to that finish line …. They want to win the race.

That’s it … the human life is race… you either run or get out the way!!!


Why am I alive? Why am I able to breathe today? Why didn’t I die like most of my mates did?

Big question…??!!

Yeah, you are alive because no matter how many errors you’ve made in the past God still cares for you, He still has a plan installed for you. Yes, I know you get scared, confused and worried sometimes, at times you feeling like you are disappointing everybody, like you’ll never live to your fullest potential. You are scared, but you know what… it’s ok to be scared sometimes…. It shows you are making progress, it shows you aren’t stuck or confined to a certain level or position.

But here’s another issue about fear SIN. Sin brings doubt, it ignites fear, it makes you feel like after some certain progress you just fall back to the ground to start afresh. It’s one thing being successful and it’s another being successful the RIGHT WAY. The quantity of your success doesn’t count or matter or mean anything at all if it has no good quality.

I once heard somewhere in a motivational message that the hardest journey you’ll ever make in this life is the one you make alone, cause trust me, you’ll always start with a huge/great multitude of friends that would say they would be with you every step of the way… but the truth is everybody you see alone the road, in the park, on the bus or where ever are going through also have issues they are trying to overcome, though some are greater than the others the world may say, but none is truly the greatest{No issue is truly greater than another}.

So you ask why are you still alive today? well, the answer is simple : Jeremiah 29:11 says it all “ FOR I KNOW THE THOUGHTS I THINK TOWARDS YOU, SAITH THE LORD, THOUGHTS OF GOOD AND NOT OF EVIL TO GIVE YOU AN EXPECTED END”……. Its really funny though, when God has promised us this, we still go about every day of our lives carrying long faces, showing the whole world we have problems, being scared, telling them how fragile we are at the moment, if you let your enemies see your weakness, they won’t pity you!! they will strike harder to make sure you fall completely. But please remember this; it doesn’t matter how many times you’ve felt forgotten, ignored, self-hated, loved less, despised, where you are now isn’t where you will be forever, your current location isn’t meant to be permanent residential area  for you. You are just going through a phase now so that someday, one day, tomorrow you will also have a story to tell, you will also tell somebody I was there before and I made it out, so cheer up and don’t wallow and drown in your own tears – tomorrow is brighter than you can ever imagine. But you have to do one thing……………………………………………..RUNNNNN!!!!!!!

Who is writing your story? (…you or someone else?)


Who is writing your story? Is it your dad, your mum, your brother, your sister, your aunt, your uncle, your cousin, is it circumstances that is writing your story, is it the economy that’s writing your story, is it your country, your religion, your social standards, your financial standards or is it YOU!

B I G   Q U E S T I O N,  H U H?!!

Do you let people or conditions judge you, do you let it orchestrate your future. If somebody is forcing you to hold a pen to write the things that you don’t like, that is a life lost, that is how you die before you ever have a chance to live.

Are you the head of your own life, are you leading your life. Are you living through the mouth of people(what they say to you and about you) or are you living based on your rules and the rules given to you by God to govern your life and style.

Are you trying to live a life somebody wants for you? Are you living to please someone-maybe your mom or dad? When you think about these questions what is/are your response. Act as if what you do matters because it does, even if it doesn’t show any results now, it would sooner or later come up in the future. Even if nobody else believes in you, I want you to believe in yourself.  Every step you take-make it count for something in your life, make sure you get something out of it, either a lesson or victory.

Recreate your mind asses yourself, accept your flaws, learn from you mistakes, don’t let people always tell you what not to and what to do, don’t let them get into your head and control your whole system. Remember , your dreams tell you who you are , they tell you who you are trying to be, spend time with them, Hours, Days, let them know you are around so that they can lead you, direct you. Ultimately anything that monopolizes your mind will become you.