7 Tip to Find Yourself When You’re Feeling Lost.

I didn’t write this inspiration message myself, I saw it and it inspired me and I decided to share it with you. I hope it inspires you too.

7 Tips to Find Yourself When You’re Feeling Lost
Whether you’ve lost yourself in your job, relationship, your role as a parent or simply feel lost in life in general, you are not alone. It doesn’t mean your life is doomed and that you will never find yourself again. It simply means you are going through an incubation period and transformation. The key is not to get stuck in your current lost state and to tap into your creative power to create a life you love.

Here are seven tips that will help you out of this lost state and remind you of the power you have to create a life you love.

1. Remember what you love to do and go do it! Do you remember the last time you had fun in your life? Do you remember when things felt easy and in the flow? It was likely because you were fully engrossed in the fun of the moment. As we grow up, we lose sight of how amazing life can be because we feel burdened by the responsibilities and mundane parts of life. It’s time to reconnect with what you love and to take action on it. No more excuses about not having the time, money, resources, babysitter etc. Make a commitment to do what you love and watch your life change before your very eyes.

2. Go on an adventure. Whether it’s a day trip, a solitary retreat, or a week-long drive along the coast, go out and explore the world. This will not only allow you to tap into the flow, but it will also give you the time and focus to really reconnect with yourself again. You’ll be away from the noise of your regular life and will be able to see and experience the world with fresh eyes. I promise, when you come back you will have far more clarity about where you are going than you had when you started.

3. Reconnect with your dreams and dream BIG. What kinds of dreams did you have for your life before you lost yourself in the busy-ness of life? What have you since deemed impossible or improbable because of where you are today? Grab a journal and reconnect with the dreams you once had and better yet, come up with some new dreams. In a perfect world, what would you love to be, have, or do? What is your soul aching for? Once you reconnect with your dreams, you’ll have the desire and inspiration to begin to take action and suddenly you will have found yourself again.

4. Expand your comfort zone regularly. It’s time to get uncomfortable by trying new things and meeting new people. Growth doesn’t happen by staying in your bubble of comfort where everything is familiar. Challenge yourself to do something that is slightly terrifying, yet invigorating. That is what I like to call the zone. It’s the space where you are stretching yourself just enough to continue to grow and evolve. What’s the first thing that came to mind for you? Go do that!

5. Get quiet and listen. Everyday there are signs, messages, and guideposts that will inspire you to act, but you only notice them if you are open. With all the mind chatter and busy-ness we have these days it can be difficult to recognize the signs that are all around, so it’s important to get quiet and listen. Pay attention to the signs on the road, songs on the radio, and the people you meet in the street. There are messengers all around with Divine guidance to help you move forward on your path. Your key to finding yourself may very well be on a billboard or come to you as a thought in the shower. Listen up, pay attention, and then follow through on your inspired action.

6. Remember you have the power to be, have, and do anything you desire. Sometimes the feeling of being lost is all-consuming and you forget that you get to choose what you think and how you feel. You are given a great amount of power to create the life you desire and get the answers you are looking for. Whether you use affirmations, mantras, meditation, yoga, journaling or something else, it’s important to focus on the beauty and joy around you. When you do that, the Universe sends you more of the same, including the answers you are seeking.

7. Ask for help. There are so many people in the world whose purpose it is to help people like you. Reach out and ask for help. You don’t have to figure this out all on your own and sometimes simply having a chat with someone can provide the insight you need to move forward with ease. Whether it’s a life coach, mentor, friend, counselor, or the Divine, ask for help and be open to the guidance and tools that come your way.


The Storm (Don’t Let Life Knock You Down)


Sometimes we live like God hates us and life has forgotten us, it happens, thats just the storm trying to get up to give up in life, it rains so heavy on us and tries to beat us mercilessly. But what you do as a person during this kind of time really defines you, it tells if you’re a kind of person willing to put up with the rain and go far or you’re to scared to get struck by lightning.
Individually we all have issues we are scared of facing, we just wished sometimes they would just disappear, God knows sometimes I feel like other people’s lives are way better than mine, that they have no issues and they’re perfects, their grades are up, the aren’t sluggish and disappointing, they don’t need to take risk cause everything is working out for them and I think, Why do I have to be the one to suffer, look at everybody out there, they’re progressing, they have no issues, they have no challenges but I’m damn wrong, because you see someone living lavishly, being so flamboyant doesn’t mean that person secretly doesn’t have issues going on in their life, doesn’t mean they’re perfect. Life storms play tricks on you and if you aren’t careful enough, you’re going to end up living a photocopy of some else’s life you think is perfect but ABSOLUTELY is not.
I can’t really tell you what your future is going to be like if you put up with the storm in your life right now, but I can tell you this, if you put up with that issues right now in your life, your life is going be worth it more than what it is now, you’re going to have and I have been there before’ story to tell people in the future and there’s no greater joy than sharing a story of testimony and triumph to people than that, you become an icon of hope.
Life isn’t going to go easy on you again you should know that! You’ve grown up, you ain’t going to be running for protection under mom and dad arms anymore, You’re now at a stage you should be able to take on responsibility in your life… Nobody’s going to get in your storm for you, everybody is alright been hit hard or current is being hit hard. Get your grip in life, put yourself together and go and find out what wonderful purpose God has put in your life.
Life isn’t and will never be a merry-go-round…. Everyday we are alive we are in a fight, fight for a secured future and the moment we decide to give up and give in to life terms and conditions we lose.

My Story

Everybody I believe some times feels like a disappointment… and it’s like OMG why can’t we have it they way we want, at least some of us deserve it. It’s frustrating.. Feeling like a failure? I feel like that almost all the time, I got tired of school, got tired of everything..felt like a failure..God!!.. Am I a disappointment or what??
Here’s my story:
I felt like giving up several times, I’m like “maybe living an average life ain’t so bad” I felt lost, forgotten, felt like nobody has really faced this same challenge as I am. I felt ashamed standing in front of people who had high hopes for me, people that expected much from me… my mom, my dad, my siblings, my friends.. Everybody really has a purpose right? Then what’s mine? Why really am I here?(God you are in heaven, Answer me!!!!)..
Many times I tell people facing difficult and hard situations of life not to worry cause they’re perfect and God’s not done with them and that their lives would be better someday in the future but underneath this words of encouragement there I was, someone who was still struggling with my own identity. My friends tell me I make them smile, I’m encouraging, some one even walked up to me and said I’m her role model and I’m like in my head saying ” Do you even know who I really am, the turmoil I’m fighting.. If you really knew what I’m facing maybe you wouldn’t say that” but well, I couldn’t tell her that, could I? Nah..that would be disappointing to her, that’d be bad. Everyday since I was 14 I would look myself in the mirror and ask this question WHO AM I REALLY? at times I find myself and I’m contented and some times I’m like.. That’s not who I really am..I’m better than that.. and I’m still searching till date.
Lots of time people ask me why I love sitting or staying alone…OK here’s my answer; I don’t want to feel like I’m a burden to anybody at all ’cause that’s want I feel like lots of time, honestly. And I’ve made mistakes that I’ll have to live with for the rest of my life.. I’ve said works that I’ll find hard to ever take back. If you ask me I’ll say my life is complicated. I read, listen to motivational audio ……… (to be continued)


Felt used or useless sometimes… scared you’ve disappointed everybody… Hey!! Listen. Nobody really cares how you feel, only you do – It’s life, people are bound to hurt you, to make you feel like giving up sometimes… make you feel like what you do don’t matter, like it doesn’t count; But it does. Listen to me right now; You count in this world OK, you really do, You, might not be that kind of child your parents expected you to turn out to be No! but you definitely turned out to the kind of person God expected you to be…. Even if you don’t seem so now, don’t give up, building a masterpiece takes time. Jesus didn’t die on the cross immediately he was born nahhhh…. He grew, He worked, He took time. It doesn’t really matter how bias a situation may be for you right now, just know this DON’T YOU EVER GIVE UP ON BUILDING YOURSELF!! Don’t tie your value to a person or situation they would disappoint you. Nobody is perfect except God. No relationship is perfect except the one you have with God, why? because no matter what we do to Him he will always forgives us as long as we are willing to turn back to him.

You are a teenager, you have purpose, you’ve been given a reason for existing, don’t waste your life on shallow things, things that are volatile, things that won’t count in the next 5 years, 2 years or perhaps the next 30 minutes. Push for what is right, do what is right not just what feels right …… Please I beg you and I beg you again DON’T PURSUE AFTER PEOPLE, PURSUE DESTINY, PEOPLE WILL DEFINITELY FOLLOW BETTER PEOPLE EVEN. Yes, I know you’ve made grievous mistakes in the past but forgive yourself or else you would never be able to move forward in this life you’ve been given to live. If you tie your happiness to a particular person, I promise you that happiness won’t last and at the end you will end up sad and disappointed.

 Don’t let a person define you, don’t let something anything, money whatsoever define your worth, because, you are worth so much more than you can begin to comprehend. Next time you are ever asked what’s your value what’s your worth… tell them to get you the blood of Jesus Christ cause that’s your worth, He paid that you will fulfill destiny and nothing on earth, under the sun, no matter how hard the thing tries except you.

Here’s the main line: you have a purpose. Live it right.


Never let what you cannot do interfere with what you can. Don’t worry about where you started, what you have, just work and believe in your future. If you are willing to fight all through the way, you will get there. Get out there don’t worry about you, focus on who you are willing to become don’t let your current situation destroy you. Whatever experience you are having right now, it has not come to stay. Become involved in life. Live your fantasy. Get persistent , get bigger than your excuses.


It’s easy to get negative… Negativity is one of the easiest threats to posses, it’s always there, it tries to make us scared… Telling us that we can’t make it. We can’t be better than we are currently… It makes us scared… It tells us we won’t amount to anything, we should just give up.
Negative if you don’t know is a dream killer, it’s always there, you can’t push it away but you can ignore it. You can live life like it’s not there.
Everything in life has two sides, the negative side and the positive side, but today, this day, most people let the negativity over power the positivity, they give so much power to the negative side, they let it rule them. They just believe that negativity always should dominate, WHY?!… Cause they are scared to believe, to hope, to dream, to keep pushing… They just want to let that negative belief over power the positive so that when they are asked along the way what happened…. They would simply say something bad happened.

SCREW THAT!!!!…. you’re giving yourself excuses so that you will pity your failures, errors and mistake. Don’t ever let negative posses and rule your life…. You’ll end up living your last moments on this earth in regret

What are you going to do about yourself now, today? Would you move, change or would you want to keep seeing the negativity in everything and continue your miserable self pity??

But ShUt Up…. You’ll make it because the fire in you is great than the storm outside you.. Don’t live on other peoples dream for you life




Get out and work hard, there is not fast route to riches or wealth or success or anything you are seeking… if there was a faster way, trust me it would kill you!!!


GET UP AND GET OUT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!